Seducing your date is going to be important if the chemistry is there and you want to go to another level. You can do this easily without being creepy. Here are three tips that will help you with the seduction game.
Learn to Listen
The first step in seduction is actually listening to your date. If you listen you can pick up on subtle clues as to what they like and don’t, this will also give you some idea of when to make your move, a date that tells you that they had a great time in Australia when they went to some swingers parties may well be open to a more direct approach.
These clues will help you later. Listening is also important because we tend to like talking about ourselves. If you allow your date to open up and speak freely you are giving them the green light to feel more comfortable with you.
Light Touching
Make yourself available to your date by employing light touching. Graze their shoulders when it’s appropriate. Place a hand over theirs when engaged in conversation. This shows your date that you are interested and you are forming a more intimate connection.
Don’t be Like Everyone Else
If you’re a guy, the last thing a woman wants is the same thing that all the other guys do on a date. Ignore the bombshell waitress when she serves the drinks and keep your focus on your date. Shower your date with positive attention without being creepy or cocky. If you’re a woman, don’t ask about his job or money. Get interested in sports. The point is to stand out in a positive way and gain his attention.